Hi Gitanjali, hope you are fine. I am so glad that finally someone has raised this issue. This is a weird behavior that I have observed in my surrundings. People tend to wait until they feel physical harm. They tend to get advice on forums and from their friends. They should understand that medical condition of one patient differs from other. One might get help from such experiences. It is indeed very important to consult a qualified infertility specialist. I myself had faced this issue. I was TTC naturally. I kept waiting as I never expected any infertility isse. When I consulted doctor I find out that I have endometriosis. I had to undergo IVF but it also failed and I am regretting now. Moreover, wasting time might affect the fertility strength of a couple. As with age the egg health and sperm count decreases.